Desire to Change.
In order to start this off right I want to share with you a quote. You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read.” Charlie Jones.” My question to you is how bad do you want it? How bad do you desire too be a different or better you? In today’s word you will find many heart breaking stories. Stories that defines people’s life as average or justify there in activity in life. In my short time I have experienced people who are in tough situations such as an abusive relationships. I have compassion for them. Not to place them in a category of being and staying a victim. But compassion for them because I know they have a heart and can change and should. Unfortunately ,what you will find is this. It comes down to one thing. They are scared to death and live their life in fear. Most people play life not to lose. Instead, they need to play life to win. Desire is a form a love. Love is the 4th highest positive frequency.
People can achieve amazing thing IF they choose to. It starts with making a decision to change. You must have a will until attitude. I have met many people who look for their security in proving to others that they need approval. I would recommend you stop that mind-set. For the simple reason is you have one life to live. If you really want to change, then do so. It’s time to be your own hero and change for what you feel is best. After all, there is not a statue ever erected to a critic. You don’t have to be a hero. Just the best you that you can be.
“Excusitis”- The Disease of Failures. There is a story on you-tube of a military Vet who was who an disable for 15 year. He was told he would never walk and run again unassisted. The number of years of jumping out of airplanes took a toll on his back and knees. He could not run and became overweight. At some point he accepted that fact and was ready to give up. Finally, one day he decided to make a change. He sought out yoga instructor to help him make that change. They all rejected him, but one man. This one guy who push him to make the change for a better healthier life. To date this guy lost over 140 pounds. More importantly he can run again. I love stories like this that show how the human spirit can move mountains.
Between stimulus and response stands your choice in life. The choice we make defines us. I don’t care how many times you get knocked down it’s about how hard you can get hit and get back up as Rocky would say. I look at it this way. If I was to say you have two choices when it comes to changing. You can either be Mr. Triumph or Mr. Defeat. May people have already taking the role of Mr. Defeat. They play the blame game for their life. If you ask them why they will tell you 100 different reasons why they can’t do something. It is who I am they think. Sadly they have no power to change not because they can’t change. Mainly because they freely have given that power to someone else. It is like the old sang goes. Dead at 25 and waiting to be buried at age 65. If this is you I want to ask you this. What is the point of your life? I don’t once think you were put on this earth to just exists.
Meet Mr. Triumph. This is my favor guy or gal. If you get to this state congratulations. Some-one who over-comes does not give up. They are always learning and working toward a worthy goal or ideal. If they are not where they are at the blame no one ,but themselves. They are too busy working on them to take account of other people and there miss fortunes in life. Jim Rohn stated that the average home over 250k has a library in it. That is somethings to think about. I love these people because they push forward no matter what. They could be from the person who does good for other to the person who builds a business. They always seem to keep an eye on the prize.
I want to end this way. I believe you can change for the better. You become what you think about. It is true you will be who you dream about too. So all these people with their face down on the ground can change why can’t you? I know you have a dream that never leaves you. How do I know that? Mainly because I am like you. I to desire too live a more happier prosperous live. I know you in fear all the time but fear is nothing more than false evidence of appearing real. My question to you is who is stopping you? Why can’t you will be the person you want to be? Why do you have to let others control the most valuable resource you have? That is your mind. I know you can do this. It takes baby step. Start with one book how to have power and confidence in dealing with people. If you only read two book’s a year in 20 years that forty books! That is not too bad!
Stop being scared and let’s do this!